...tears & joys...
Friday, May 4, 2007
Everybody's Changing
Through the times, we have to deal with changes. We have to adjust, we have to adapt and we have to ACCEPT.
Change is the only permanent thing in this world, it's inevitable. It's part of growing up.
Whether it's for the better or worse, people change and that's a fact. I know and I admit that I'm changing and I do hope that it's for the better. And I honestly believe that my intentions are clean. I also admit that I'm one hell of an insecure loser but this loser is smart enough to know her boundaries and she knows how to use her insecurities well.
I watched SPIDEY3 today, and at the end of the movie Peter Parker said something like "
In life we always have choices blahblah". It was saying that in whatever circumstance, good or bad we must always choose to do the right thing. It also said something about choosing to become the best that you can be in spite of all the hindrances and the like. (Nice movie, btw)
"Put your insecurities into good use. Develop your talents and improve yourself. So your loved one can proudly say, "SHE'S THE BEST I EVER HAD." Irresistable!"
(One of my realizations and my 'about me' before in my friendster account. )
As I said, I admit that I'm insecure and I don't deny it. It's a fact that I must accept and deal with. I'm tired of crying and looking down on myself. So I decided to make some changes. I'm doing this for me and for that person. Basically because I want to be the best for that person. I want to be the one (that person) couldn't resist and live without. I want that person to be proud of me and feel lucky to have me.
"BE THE BEST THAT YOU CAN BE"
Yes, your loved one may love you for who you are and accept you fully. But I believe that it doesn't end there. Don't focus your life on one person only. Don't get me wrong, I'm not against it but I still believe that a person inlove still has his/her own life to deal with. Go ahead and build your world around that person you love, BUT STILL, love yourself.
Indeed, my motto in life.
LOVE YOURSELF. :) And yes, I do love myself. This is me, take me or leave me. What I wear, how I project myself, the way I walk, talk and act, my wants, my ways... all these show who I really am and I proudly show it off to the world. I don't care what other's think. But still...
COMMENTS ARE GLADLY ACCEPTED AND APPRECIATED, Thankyou :p
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I'm changing, all of us, we are all changing. Accept it, we can't live like 'this' forever. I really wish we could, but that's impossible. All we have to do now is deal with it, live with it. But there are some things that remain the same. Deep-down, I'm still the same, old Pot you used to know. I missed you and I miss you even more. I'm hurt and I'm trying ignore this hatred. I hope that you're still the same person that I used to know. And I wish you could at least accept me. ;s
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so different ain't it?
11:08 AM
